Sunday, October 26, 2014

From THREESOME



Dude. The quintessential California word, used to indicate some sort of chummy familiarity. It just seems to roll off this beach girl’s tongue so easily. But Leigh now knows she’s not just some beach girl. She carries around heartache, a history. We all do, but most peoples’ pain is simply a mystery to us. It has to be that way. If we opened our hearts to everyone who passed by on the street, we’d be depleted by the time we hit the corner.

Sunday, October 19, 2014

53 pounds down

For some reason, I look stunned.

As written on Facebook

I want to tell you a story.

Ten years ago at this time, I was sitting nervously at Jump'n Java Coffee House on the border of Berkeley and Oakland. I was waiting for Adam. Two days earlier, he'd broken up with his longterm girlfriend. I thought I'd wanted this for years. We knew we cared about each other, but couldn't act on it not only because he was otherwise involved, but because neither of us was ready to do it.

We were meeting up. I didn't know what he was going to tell me. I was freaked out as all hell. For all I knew, he was going to tell me he was totally changing his life, dying his hair purple, moving to Bora Bora, becoming a male exotic dancer. I might never see him again. I might never again hug him or hear his voice.

I sensed change in the air and that scared the living daylights out of me. I hadn't been happy with the situation before, but at least I understood what it was and its boundaries.

He walked in. I said "hi." I think you probably know the rest.

Sunday, October 12, 2014

Bay Area Pet Fair & Adoptathon

I volunteered for Northern California Family Dog at today's Bay Area Pet Fair & Adoptathon in Marin. Here I am hanging with Speckles, an amazing sweetheart of a dog who I would adopt if I could. Seven months old, deaf, amazing with people and other dogs, just an incredible girl all-around. Truly good times.